Thursday, June 30, 2011

Happy Baby!

Staying home with Paxton has been amazing.  It is worth the loss of the second income just to spend every day with him.  I have been taking videos and pictures like crazy so Jared doesn't feel like he misses much either.  Here's how we spend our days:
 
Smiling and talking

Eating fingers

Playing with toys

More smiling

Taking cute pictures for daddy

Visiting Gramsy

Crying for food

Taking naps

Lots of bottles

Tummy Time



Smiles and spit bubbles

And piggy back rides when Daddy gets home!

Even though it can sometimes seem monotonous, Paxton and I have lots of fun! 

Sunday, June 26, 2011

The Rotavirus Vaccine

So when I first posted about Paxton's two month shots, I said that he was doing fine and the shots weren't as bad as I thought.  Well, that only lasted a few days.  The third day after his shots, we were at Wal-Mart getting some groceries and he started fussing.  This was weird because he almost never cries unless he's hungry or sleepy and he wasn't either.  It wasn't a big deal, I stuck his pacifier in his mouth and he stopped for the rest of the shopping trip.  As soon as I put him in the car, he started really crying.  It had only been about an hour since he ate so he wasn't hungry and nothing would console him.  I tried the pacifier...nothing...so I decided to go ahead and drive home.  Usually the car puts him right to sleep...no luck.  We got all the way home and he was still screaming.  I decided that I would try some of the tips I had read about before having Paxton that helped parents make their babies stop crying.  I rocked him, walked around with him, took him outside, put him in his swing, took his clothes off, put his feet in running water....everything I could think of...he kept crying.  After about an hour of solid crying, he finally fell asleep. 

Things got worse the next few days.  I finally figured out that eating would calm him down for awhile.  Unfortunately that meant he was eating about every hour and a half and was still crying a little bit in between those feedings.  I decided that it was time to call his doctor.  As soon as I told the nurse that he had seemed extra fussy since two days after his shots, she said she knew exactly what it was.  I was so relieved because I was pretty sure that the nurse was going to listen to me and then say something like "well, babies cry" or something else off-putting.  Well, I know that babies cry...but my baby didn't...so I knew something was off.  Anyway, she told me that it was a side-effect of the rotavirus shot.  Apparently the rotavirus can cause pretty severe stomach cramps in a few babies and we just had one of those babies.  The bad news?  No treatment.  Just wait it out...it shouldn't last more than 10 days.  When you have a baby that is crying almost all day, the last thing you want to hear is that there's nothing you can do.  She told me I could get him some Culturelle at Walgreens and break the capsule open in his bottle.  She said that would neutralize the bacteria in his tummy and make him feel better.  Of course we tried it.  The Culturelle was $25 for 30 capsules which seemed expensive...but it was going to make my baby better so it was worth it!  I gave him his first capsule as soon as I got home and continued it for the next three days.  Nothing happened.  Jared had had enough.  I called the after-hours number that night to find out what I could do to make him more comfortable for the next 5 days.  The nurse listened as I told her that Paxton's pediatrician had diagnosed him with stomach cramps secondary to the rotavirus vaccine and that I was giving him Culturelle and wanted some other ideas to make him more comfortable.  She asked about Culturelle.  I told her everything I knew about it.  She asked what I was currently doing to make him feel better.  I told her I was feeding him pretty often.  The first nurse had told me that babies want to eat when their tummies feel bad...they know that when their tummy is hungry, eating helps and they can't tell the difference between hungry and upset so eating makes them feel better.  She said that as long as he wasn't throwing up, I probably wasn't over-feeding him.  Well, this nurse disagreed.  She wanted a detailed list of every time he had eaten that day and how many ounces he had at each feeding.  She told me I was feeding him too often and too many ounces.  I told her that all I wanted was some ideas for how to make his tummy feel better.  She gave me a list of things I couldn't do: use a heating pad, give him medicine, etc.  Basically she was no help at all.

I called and scheduled an appointment with Paxton's doctor.  By this time it had been nine days and the cramping was scheduled to end after ten days, but it was Friday and I didn't want to get into the weekend without being sure that nothing else was wrong.  By the time I got him to the doctor (with my amazing mom's help) he was doing much better.  The doctor ruled out any kind of stomach virus and checked all of Paxton's vitals.  He had gained a whole pound in the last 9 days.  He confirmed that it was just stomach cramps because of the shots.  The next day, Paxton was pretty much back to normal.

From now on I will make sure to research the side effects of his vaccines before he gets them.  I know in most cases the benefits of the vaccine outweigh the fever or fussiness, but rotavirus is just diarrhea.  In some cases it leads to dehydration or hospitalization, but prior to 2006 when the vaccine was introduced, almost every child had a run-in with it before age 5.  I think a round of diarrhea would have been better than the ten solid days of having a miserable baby.  And, the shot has two more doses...one at 4 months and one at 6 months.  His doctor said that each round the side effects are a little worse.  I'm not sure I can take 20 more days of that....        

Thursday, June 23, 2011

THREE MONTHS!!

Yesterday was Paxton's 3 month birthday!  Here are some pictures from his teddy bear photo shoot:





Paxton is sleeping a ton!  He usually eats around 7:30 or 8:00 then takes a bath and goes to bed around 9:00.  Lately, he has been sleeping until 9:00 or 10:00 the next morning.  It's amazing.  I love having a good sleeper.
He is great at holding his head up.  He has also started rolling over from tummy to back.  We even got a video of it!  He also talks a lot!  After he eats, I prop him up on my legs and he starts talking.  It's adorable.  He is still loving the bath.
He is still in 3 month clothes and has moved up to size 2 diapers.  They are a little big on him but they are way more absorbent for his long nights of sleep.
During the day he eats every 2.5 hours which is more often than he used to eat...I guess now that he sleeps so much he has to catch up on calories during the day.
He loves to be held.  He gets bored if he's laying down too long and will fuss until he is picked up.  His favorite position is sitting in a lap facing out so he can see what's going on.
He likes to be read to.

We celebrated Jared's first Father's Day last Sunday.  We had a lot of fun.  Jared got a digital picture frame for his desk at work and some other little treats.  He also got a day off from all diaper changing, bottle making and baby entertaining.  We went to church and then to lunch at his grandma's house.  After that we came home and just let Jared chill.  Somehow we ended up with no pictures of the whole day...kinda sad.  But, it was great to have a day to show Jared how much he means to us.  He is great at getting Paxton to stop crying.  Paxton and I are really lucky to have him in our lives.

Here are some pictures of Paxton and his amazing daddy:

At the hospital

First shopping trip

Taking a nap

He looks like his daddy!

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Dedicating our Baby

Paxton was dedicated at church today.  When I was little, we went to a church that baptized babies on the parents' authority and then the child could choose to go through confirmation around high school.  I liked the idea of this.  It is reassuring to think that once you baptize your baby, it will go to Heaven...but that's not really how it works...I also like the idea of deciding for yourself once you're a little older.

The church we go to now is a little different.  Babies are dedicated to the church as a reminder that it is really God's child...not ours and as a promise that the parents will raise the baby to follow God.  Then, once an individual decides to take the next step, they are baptized.  This is much closer to how baptism works in the Bible.  I can't really say that either way is right or wrong...but I do think that if you believe you are baptized then it doesn't really matter when it happened.

Anyway, today was Paxton's day.  He looked so handsome in his polo and khaki pants. 


Most of our families came out to support Paxton:

Vickie, Papaw, Jared, Paxton, and I
 (Jared's brother Josh and two of his aunts were there also...but somehow we didn't get any pictures with them)
Maesynne, Bevynne and my momma

Paxton did great at church, and he loved all the attention he got afterwards.






We were so grateful for our family members that came to support Paxton on his big day.  It is amazing to see the people who are willing to rearrange their weekend to commit to raise Paxton as a Christian.  He is so lucky to have such a dedicated, supportive and loving family.

We also got a few family pictures in:


Tuesday, June 7, 2011

I WIll Give You My Heart and Life to Keep

Jared and I celebrated our anniversary yesterday, we went to Othello's (where we had our rehearsal dinner) for some amazing pasta and tiramisu. After that, we got to go see Bridesmaids.  It was a fun anniversary date.


I can't believe how much our lives have changed in two years....

We've been to San Antonio

Kansas City


Fort Worth

Dallas

Our first RESORT vacation in Puerto Vallarta

Celebrated two Christmases together (and a lot of other holidays)

Got a cat

Jared graduated from college

I graduated from college


  • We've moved twice...both times in one night
  • We joined a Connect Group at church and met several great couples
Found out we were pregnant

And became a family of THREE
 It has been an amazing two years.  I could not ask for a better husband or a better daddy for Paxton.  Jared is funny. sweet, trustworthy, dependable, hardworking and handsome.  He is a great partner and best friend.  Knowing that we will truly spend our whole lives together is an indescribable feeling.

Our wedding vows: 

Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me." Ruth 1:16, 17

I take you to be my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today tomorrow and forever.  I will trust and honor you. I will laugh with you and cry with you.  I will love you faithfully through the best and the worst of times. What may come I will always be there.  As I have given you my hand to hold, so I will give you my heart and life to keep, so help me God.

I WIll Give You My Heart and Life to Keep

Jared and I celebrated our anniversary yesterday, and it was Paxton's first time to have a babysitter.  My mom kept Paxton while Jared and I went out.  Leaving him there was as hard as I thought it would be.  I knew my mom would do a great job keeping him.  She has raised four babies successfully, but it still was really hard leaving him after being with him for 11 weeks of life plus nine months while I was pregnant.  I might have cried a little as we drove away....but we got to Othello's (where we had our rehearsal dinner) and I started to relax.  Dinner was amazing, and then we got to go see Bridesmaids.  It was a fun first night away from Paxton and as much as I missed him, it was nice to not have to worry about him crying during dinner or planning the night around his feeding schedule.

I can't believe how much our lives have changed in two years....
We've been to San Antonio

Kansas City


Fort Worth

Dallas

Our first RESORT vacation in Puerto Vallarta

Celebrated two Christmases together (and a lot of other holidays)

Got a cat

Jared graduated from college

I graduated from college


  • We've moved twice...both times in one night
  • We joined a Connect Group at church and met several great couples
Found out we were pregnant

And became a family of THREE
 It has been an amazing two years.  I could not ask for a better husband or a better daddy for Paxton.  Jared is funny. sweet, trustworthy, dependable, hardworking and handsome.  He is a great partner and best friend.  Knowing that we will truly spend our whole lives together is an indescribable feeling.

Our wedding vows: 


Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me." Ruth 1:16, 17

I take you to be my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today tomorrow and forever.  I will trust and honor you. I will laugh with you and cry with you.  I will love you faithfully through the best and the worst of times. What may come I will always be there.  As I have given you my hand to hold, so I will give you my heart and life to keep, so help me God.